Of all the forms of courage, the ability to laugh is the most profoundly therapeutic.

Yes, things can go wrong in life. Yes, there are issues and problems to solve. But we have a choice. We can choose to become pessimistic and not see the value in what we experience, or we can choose to laugh as an admission to the fact we are not perfect and life can get the best of us at times. What a relief to know that no matter how bad things may look, a smile or a rift of laughter can begin to make the circumstances feel better

Yes laughing is the best cure. Don’t have to be sad all the time. Give yourself a break. Laugh.

The statute of limitations has expired on most of our childhood traumas

For some, childhood was pleasant, almost idyllic. But for others, when there has been serious physical, sexual or emotional abuse it is important to recognize this and process this with a trained professional. No matter your past, change is the essence of life. In order to move forward in life we need to learn to live in the present.

My childhood wood was the best. I will pass on the memories to my kids and grand kids. Yes my family was not rich but they were trying by all means to provide me. I have learnt that I should work hard to get something and to be successful. I am a strong woman today because of my past or solid childhood.

Watch this space

I believe there is a lot in store for me. Just watch the space. The best is yet to come. I am preparing my self for the future. This space may look a little bit crowded but when my turn comes, the space will be enough for me to show you what I’ve got.

I believe in seasons. So my season of blessings is coming. I will make the circle bigger for me. I am not living only for today, but I also consider the future. So what ever decision I am taking I consider the future.

It‘s all up to me, to make the circle bigger. I choose to take the right direction, so that when my time comes, I don’t get lost.

Watch this space. My time is coming and I will make the circle bigger.

Only bad things happen quickly

I don’t believe it’s only bad things happen quickly. Good things too, happen quickly. It is just that we don’t recognise when good things happen, but when bad things happen we tend to notice very quickly.

I believe each and everything has its own time. Whatever is happening, it is happening at the right time, whether is good or bad. I know it not good feeling to lose someone you loved, it does not matter how you lose him/her. The fact remains, it was bound to happen and there is nothing you can do about it. You have to understand, it was the time.

The other thing is that people don’t want to accept bad things. In life there are bad and good things. If today something bad happen, you must know that tomorrow will bring you good things. Bad and good things are bound to happen.

There is a season for everything. If a person says nothing good had ever happen to him/her, you must know that person is a liar and he/she does not appreciate at all, or he /she is not living on this planet but in hell.

All I say bad things happen at the right time as well as good things. So we need to appreciate good things, so that we can be strong when bad things are happening.

Be bold and the mighty forces will come to your aid

 Persist never stop doing good. No matter what don’t be discourage.

I believe when you believe in what you doing, one day it will be successful. Only thing you need to do is to keep on pushing no matter how difficult is the situation.

There was a pregnant woman, she lost her husband and she was only two months pregnant. She was jobless and her husband was only working as a garden boy, he was not earning much. When he died he left nothing for her wife.

She told herself something will come up and she will not abort the baby. She raised her son; she was struggling because she had no good job. She was working as a tea lady.

Her son now is a doctor and he bought her a house and opened a business for his mom. Now she owns a business, she is no longer a tea lady. She raised a doctor.

See this lady had a choice to abort the baby, but she told herself no, something good will come up. She was struggling but she never stopped doing good. Finally it paid off.

The last lecture

The last lecture was from my late mom. She told me to be wise and go back to school. She told me not to get back with someone who betrayed me because he will waste my time and hurt me again. She told me to raise my child and be a good mother to him. She told me not to compromise when it comes to my son and my education.

She told me to be like her, she was an independent and businesswoman. She told me to believe in myself and never doubt myself. She asked me to be there for my brothers no matter what and look after her little boy, he was 12 years by then but now he is 21 years.

She told me not to stop praying and chasing after my dreams. She told me, forgiveness is good for the heart.

I thank her for giving me the last lecture. Today everything she said still rings on my head. I practice everything she said.  I LOVE YOU, MOM!!!! REST IN PEACE! I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!!!

Why do I have a conversation?

It is part of life. Everybody needs to have a conversation. Even the most seldom person, do have a conversation. It is a way of communication.

I have a conversation because I like interacting with others. Conversation is the way of communication. Getting Ideas while you having a conversation.

I like to pour my heart, I like to offload and getting a comfort from a friend. A conversation helps me to communicate effectively.

There should be a goal for each conversation. I have a conversation in many ways, telephonically, socially medial, via email or person to person. As long I get a response. 

When I’m having a conversation I seek attention. And we should reach a common understanding.