There is no place like home

There is no place like home

Home is where I come from. It’s where I have been thought values of life. It is where I have my own space and privacy.  I feel safe and I know there is no one can harm me. Even if things are tough in life, I know that, I will get comfort at home. home is where my opinion is important.

i do things that i normally do not do at public spaces. At home there is love, joy, happiness and peace. i feel free. i can shout loud. i enjoy my family's company. Home is more warmth than any other place. we always  laugh . sharing jokes and loving one another. taking care of one another. i can not imagine my self without home.


i get all the support i need and respect. i share all my love with my family. home is the best place to be.

we are what we do

We are what we do

The way we do things describes our characters.  If you do not count your words, when you speak that shows that, you do not have manners. You are rude. Like this guy I know, he steals. He is a thief. Whatever he owns got it from stealing.

I call him a PROFESSIONAL THIEF. He is successful. He got businesses. He was robbing banks, stealing cars, and house breaking. He was in and out of jail. After he came out of jail he bought himself two taxis. Where did he get the money because he was not working? Definitely he saved the money on his mommy account or someone else account.  He opened a business. Now he has more than three cars and ten taxis, supermarkets, cab business, and butchery. He is leaving a nice life by stealing from people. How sad is that.

 There is this lady who like to gossip. She always gossip about people. She does have a life. She is always pointing fingers on people’s business. She ends up not minding her business. She goes up and down, digging for gossip. At work she is not productive, because she likes gossiping. She gossips even with useless things.

Whatever you do is what you are. But at some cases people can be fakes. They would pretend to be a good person, whereas they are no good at all. Like the other priest who raped his daughter. He pretended to be a good person, but inside was cruel. He was a rapist.  Not everything we do, is describing our personality.

Changing man like socks

Oh! Oh! What a shame! This is not on. How does a woman manage five boyfriends in her life? Is that normally or abnormally? How could she change man like socks? This woman who lives at Parow she cannot have one man in her life. She claims that mans are dogs, they have to be played like soccer ball. She has five boyfriends. One to pay her account, second one to pay for her hair and nails, third one to buy her grocer, fourth one to transport her and the fifth  for pleasure.

She claims that, she was once played and that turned her into a player. Once she breaks up one of her boyfriends, she starts looking for a replacement quickly. She sleeps with all of them. She enjoys every moment with her boyfriends, because they do it different and it means nothing to her because it is just a game to her. She says “It’s like changing socks and I can not wear the socks I wore yesterday, I have to change them”. She says, cannot be with one man. She is going to change get whatever man she wants, as long as they are plenty of man out there. She calls herself a “GO GETTER AND ENERGETIC”.

OH! This woman is scaring me. She is no better than a prostitute. She is doing the same job as a prostitute. Five man in a row. She is changing man like socks.

We are afraid of doing wrong things

We are afraid of doing wrong things, but we end up doing them. There is this guy that I know. He was well raised from the Christian family. He would not associate himself with wrong gang. He told people that he will never do drugs or join thug’s gang, because he knew that was a wrong thing to do. He was still growing up by then and he was still in primary school. His dream was to finish school and achieve something in life. He was aware of the wrong things and never thought that one day he would be doing them.

At the age of 15 he started smoking dagga and using drugs. He joined a thug’s gang. He started drinking and not attending school properly. He started robbing people and stealing from the shops. He stopped attending school and he became the boss of the gang. He stole from his own home. He became violent. He went in and out of jail. He became a criminal and untrustworthy. His future became futureless. All the dreams he had, did not come true.

All the wrong things he was afraid of doing, he ended up doing. Most of people are like that, for instance you did not like the way your father treated your mom, may be your father was abusive to your mom and you tell yourself that you not treat your partner like your father did to your mom, but you will find out that you are doing the same thing your dad did to your mom.  Actions speak louder than words. Like the youth of today, they say that are scares of aids but their actions do not represents of what they are saying.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 14/02/11 " Taxi drivers should get customer service training"

 Nontsikelelo Madolo 202030482 Date: 14/02/11Taxi drivers should get customer service training

It would be a good idea if all the Taxi drivers would get customer service training. Most of Taxi drivers don’t have customer’s skill at all.

They say whatever they want to say to passengers. They treat customers very bad. For instance the taxi is supposed to carry 16 passengers, but Taxi driver will load 20 passengers. And if passengers are complaining, Taxi driver would threaten the passengers or swearing at passengers.

The other day I was on my way to work, it was early in the morning a passenger was complaining because he got a short change. The taxi driver told a passenger to shut up or else, he is going to take him (passenger) out of his taxi. That was very unnecessary. Taxi driver should have given a passenger a full change instead of arguing for nonsense. How rude is dat. Taxi drivers make passengers feel like they didn’t pay for their trip.

There should be a training academy for taxi drivers in order for them to acquire skills on how to treat customers, and how to drive when you carrying passengers. I promise once taxi drivers get that training, passengers would be happy. There will be no complaints against taxi drivers. The business would run smooth and no complains about bad service.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 07/03/11 " Gambling"

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Gambling

Gambling is part of activity where you bet and stand a chance of winning a share. Casino gambling, lotto, internet gambling. Etc. It is not guaranteed that you would win. Gamblers start panicking when they don’t win. They spend their thousands and millions. The poor will spend their last hundreds with the hope of becoming reach. They become so frustrated and aggressive when they are not getting something back.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Gambling is addictive. It can cause problems at work, family friends and neighbours. When gamblers are addictive they spend the whole day, weekend and month to the casino and not going home. An addictive gambler would start using their savings, stealing money from work or home. Addictive gambler is always thinking about money. Each and every cent he/she gets is using it for gambling. She/he would start selling his belongings. Once a gambler is addictive to gambling would start pitch up late at work or not peach at all. His will spent more time gambling and less time with his family. Most of ladies would start selling their bodies in order to get money for gambling. Mainly it is done at the casinos’.

I wish people can see that gambling is not good. It is addictive. It can change your personality.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 07/03/11 "What is the colour of the wind?"(5)

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What is the colour of the wind?

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Does the wind have colour? That’s real interesting.  I wish I knew the colour of the wind. I did some research on face book, trying to get some information about the colour of the wind. Trying to find out how people do they think, about the wind having colour. Some told me that the wind is Anonymous, Grey, Colourful, Neutral, crystal clear and some say all beautiful colours. Then I visited Google website and I found out that the colour of the wind is transparent.

I always thought that the colour of the wind is Dusty, because the wind brings up the dust. I have a clear understanding why is the colour of the wind is transparent. You can tell which side the wind comes from. That is obvious, it is so transparent. You can tell where is the problem if you know what is the cause of it.  Knowing the cause of the problem means that you can sort the problem. It is like when you see the wind is coming from the west side and your door is facing that side, for sure you will close the door in order to stop the dust getting in the house.

So i believe the colour of the wind is transparent, according to my findings and explanation.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 28/02/11 " if i were the boss" (4)

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If I were the boss

 I would do as I please. I would make sure that my employees are arriving in the office. I would put a command that says “if you arrive late at the office, you must for 30 minutes without a song”. I would make sure that everyone does not miss work. I would have a crèche near the work place.  I would not take any excuses of missing or coming late at work. Because I would be the boss and my word would be the final word.

I would not want anyone to argue with me. Every Wednesday I would throw a party in the office. I would expect everyone to bring me gifts.  I would not take cheap gifts. I would take some time off whenever I like. I would tell everyone to do my job for me and take credit. I would expect someone to polish my shoes when I am arriving at work and when I am living from work.

I would spend more time shopping, doing my hair and nails. I would take one year leave. I would do as I please. And I would not expect anyone to do what I am doing. I would expect productivity at my employees. I would take one employee out for a holiday, just because of her great performance, while I was out enjoying my life.

It’s a pity I am not the boss I cannot do as I please. I have to obey the rules.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 21/02/11 " Does a man complete a woman?

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Does a man complete a woman?

Does every woman need a man? Can a woman leave without a man? Is it normal for a woman to live without a man? I know God created Adam and Eve, not eve alone. Eve was created to keep accompany Adam. Does that apply in these days? We have lesbians and nun. Not every woman needs a man in her life. A woman does not need to complete her.

A brave woman is complete without a man. A woman can stand for herself. I like woman who are out there and standout for them self. A woman is powerful more than a man. A woman is a man herself. Woman is a beautiful creature that can multitask. A woman is complete. Some woman thinks that it is a must to be with a man. If a man does not make you happy in your life, why stay with him. A complete woman knows that her happiness comes first. A complete woman does not compromise her happiness. She stands up for herself. She protects her kids, heart and happiness.

I know there are good mans out there who real needs complete woman.  And there are complete woman who needs good man out there. I hope they will find each other. All I am saying is that a woman does not need a man to complete her. As long as you happy, stay strong and complete.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 21/02/11 "Two people come out of a building and into a story" (3)

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Two people come out of a building and into a story

Zanemvula was an old man. His wife passed away. So he needed a wife, he did not want to be alone. He was 60 years old.  He was staying in rural areas. Claire was a beautiful woman of 24 years. She was an educated woman and focused one. She was a career woman. She was working in Advertising industry. She was a classy woman.

She decided to take leave from work to visit her parents to Lady Frère. Her parents wanted her to get married because they wanted cows (Lobola). They were worried that their daughter is getting old but not married yet. They told this old guy, and he was interested. So Claire was sent to the river to fetch water, on her way to the river, five guys were standing, waiting for her. They grabbed her and she streamed, but no one helped her .these guys were singing and took her to this old man house. They told her that she is the wife of Zanemvula. At night the old man forced Claire to sleep with her. She did not want to, but the old man was hitting Claire. Claire got a chance she took a knife and stabbed the old man until he died. Claire was found guilty of murder by the community but law found the death man guilty of Rape.

That’s the story of an old man and the young ended.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 14/02/11 " Designer PR?"(2)

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Designer PR?

How has Public Relations assisted the people of the country, the country as the community at large. Has it built a nation o broken it down?

Let’s take a look at a definition of Public relations...” Public Relations is known as the planning or management of relationships between the organisation and everyone who the organisation needs in order to succeed in its task. This includes the management of relationships with staff, but also with customers, suppliers, shareholders, neighbours, the govemment and the greater community. Public Relations is one of the management functions necessary of an organisation”-Gregory, A(Ed) 2002

In answering my question public Relations has shared positive communication skills with the community. Its motive? To bring about bring about positive relationships whether it might be the eternal or external audience of the community will prosper.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 06/02/11" I am?

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I am?

I am what I am. I am daughter of Mr and Mrs Madolo. I am the only girl. I am a blessing. That’s why they named me Nontsikelelo. I am a friend, mother, sister, employee, student, lover, aunt and cousin.

I am everything. I am intelligent. I am a good person. I am the most wonderful person on the planet. I am so in love with myself. I am confident. But most of all I am the child of God. God sent his only son unto earth so that, I can be saved. So I am saved. Jesus said “I am the truth and the way. No one will go to see my father without going thru me. Mathew 6. So I believe that I am the way to my success. I know I will not be successful if I do not work hard. I am the success because each thing that I do I put enough effort.

I am a beauty queen that loves God, with success in my life. I am woman of God with intelligence.  I am not just a pretty face. I am a wise woman. I am living my life balance, since I am everything that I have mentioned above. I am excelling in each of the above mentioned things.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date 06/02/11" The importance of water"

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The importance of water (1)

Water is the common name applied to the liquid form (state) of the hydrogen and oxygen compound h20. Pure water is an odourless, tasteless, clear liquid. Water is one of nature’s most gifts to mankind. Essential to life, a person’s survival depends on drinking water. Water is one of the most essential elements to good health. It is necessary for the digestion and absorbtion of flood helps maintain proper muscle tone; supplies oxygen and nutrients to the cells; rids the body of wastes; and serves as a natural air conditioning system. Health officials emphasize the importance of drinking at least eight glasses of clean water each and every day to maintain good health.

Since water contains no calories and can serve as an appetite suppressant and helps the body metabolize stored fat, it may possibly be one of the most significant factors in losing weight. In his book, titled “Snowbird Diet” Dr.Donald Robertson says the body will not function properly without enough water and discuss the importance of drinking plenty of water for permanent weight loss.” Drinking enough water is the best treatment for fluids retention; the overweight person needs more water than the thin one; water helps to maintain proper muscle tone; water can help relieve constipation; drinking water is essential to weight loss”

Water is a key component in determining the quality of our lives. Today people are concerned about the quality of the water they drink.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Date: 13/03/11" who said life would be easy?"

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Who life said would be easy?

Are you blaming for your horrible life? Is life that bad? Is life that boring? Do you want to commit suicide? Do you think suicide is the answer to your problems? Who said life would be easy? Are you a coward?  You cannot deal with your problems accordingly. How are about you speak out with a friend about your problems. Who said you are the only one, with problems. Do you know how many people having the same problems like yours and those who have more problems than yours? If you knew you would not dare thinking of committing suicide. Go out there mix yourself with people, who appreciate life. Every problem has a solution. Be realistic and stop being a coward. Face your demons.

Life is neither tough nor easy. Life is great. Life is a blessing from God. Life should be appreciated. Life needs people who can think straight. Life needs people who can make right decisions. Everyone in life succeed because of their hard work. So get up there and face the challenges of life. Life should be treasured. We live once and there is no other life beyond this, life that we have. Enjoy your life while still last, and know that you will never get another chance.

Nontsikelelo Madolo "Fish falling from the sky"(6) date: 13/03/11

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Fish falling from the sky (6)

Oh! No fish falling from the sky. That is something in possible. I cannot imagine the fish falling from the sky. To me this sounds like a man who predicted his death. He told people that, he will die when he is 80 years of age, with 20 grandchildren. And ten great grand children. He said when he dies all o his family would be surrounding his bed and his wife would be pampering him. He said on that day the weather would be hot and no wind. The day would be twelve afternoon, on Saturday. His family would sing a happy song to him and he would feel no pains. He would just die. He would just close his eyes and that would be the end of his life.

None of that happened. He died alone with no family and at the age of 35. No one can predict his death day. If that happens “fish would from the sky”. A man would be pregnant and Pigs would have wing to fly. That impossible you cannot tell when, where and how you going to die. Impossible, impossible. That means “Fish falling from the sky”.

Nontsikelelo Madolo Blog headline: Two people come out of a building and into a story(3)

starting my blog

i have finally created my blog.