Only bad things happen quickly

I don’t believe it’s only bad things happen quickly. Good things too, happen quickly. It is just that we don’t recognise when good things happen, but when bad things happen we tend to notice very quickly.

I believe each and everything has its own time. Whatever is happening, it is happening at the right time, whether is good or bad. I know it not good feeling to lose someone you loved, it does not matter how you lose him/her. The fact remains, it was bound to happen and there is nothing you can do about it. You have to understand, it was the time.

The other thing is that people don’t want to accept bad things. In life there are bad and good things. If today something bad happen, you must know that tomorrow will bring you good things. Bad and good things are bound to happen.

There is a season for everything. If a person says nothing good had ever happen to him/her, you must know that person is a liar and he/she does not appreciate at all, or he /she is not living on this planet but in hell.

All I say bad things happen at the right time as well as good things. So we need to appreciate good things, so that we can be strong when bad things are happening.

Be bold and the mighty forces will come to your aid

 Persist never stop doing good. No matter what don’t be discourage.

I believe when you believe in what you doing, one day it will be successful. Only thing you need to do is to keep on pushing no matter how difficult is the situation.

There was a pregnant woman, she lost her husband and she was only two months pregnant. She was jobless and her husband was only working as a garden boy, he was not earning much. When he died he left nothing for her wife.

She told herself something will come up and she will not abort the baby. She raised her son; she was struggling because she had no good job. She was working as a tea lady.

Her son now is a doctor and he bought her a house and opened a business for his mom. Now she owns a business, she is no longer a tea lady. She raised a doctor.

See this lady had a choice to abort the baby, but she told herself no, something good will come up. She was struggling but she never stopped doing good. Finally it paid off.

The last lecture

The last lecture was from my late mom. She told me to be wise and go back to school. She told me not to get back with someone who betrayed me because he will waste my time and hurt me again. She told me to raise my child and be a good mother to him. She told me not to compromise when it comes to my son and my education.

She told me to be like her, she was an independent and businesswoman. She told me to believe in myself and never doubt myself. She asked me to be there for my brothers no matter what and look after her little boy, he was 12 years by then but now he is 21 years.

She told me not to stop praying and chasing after my dreams. She told me, forgiveness is good for the heart.

I thank her for giving me the last lecture. Today everything she said still rings on my head. I practice everything she said.  I LOVE YOU, MOM!!!! REST IN PEACE! I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!!!

Why do I have a conversation?

It is part of life. Everybody needs to have a conversation. Even the most seldom person, do have a conversation. It is a way of communication.

I have a conversation because I like interacting with others. Conversation is the way of communication. Getting Ideas while you having a conversation.

I like to pour my heart, I like to offload and getting a comfort from a friend. A conversation helps me to communicate effectively.

There should be a goal for each conversation. I have a conversation in many ways, telephonically, socially medial, via email or person to person. As long I get a response. 

When I’m having a conversation I seek attention. And we should reach a common understanding.

Write our bucket list/ 100 things to do before you die

Ø  Getting married

Ø  Giving birth to twins

Ø  Having my own house

Ø  Driving my own car

Ø  Being a pastor’s wife

Ø  Having my own gym

Ø  Being a franchisee

Ø  Adopt a chines child

Ø  Losing some kilos

Ø  Plant a tree

Ø  Loving animals

Ø  Loving my enemies

Ø  Own my own magazine

Ø  Travelling to Paris

Ø  Own property business

Ø  Working in Marketing industry

Ø  Owning  four cell phone

Ø  Wearing spectacles

Ø  Being a singer

Ø  Eat healthy

Ø  Speak chines

Ø  Stop drinking coffee

Ø  Drink water more often

Ø  Being a millionaire

Ø  Learn to play musical instrument

Ø  Shower in a water fall

Ø  Being someone’s mentor

Ø  Make peace with everyone

Ø  Grow a garden

Ø  Name a child

Ø  Raise my own child

Ø  Learn to cook properly

Ø  Write a novel

Ø  To be debt free

Ø  Jog everyday

Ø  Learn to play golf

Ø  Learn to play netball

Ø  Learn to surf

Ø  Learn to sail

Ø  Learn to trust people

Ø  Learn to bake

Ø  Learn to plot a hair

Ø  To be more advance in technology

My big fat dream

Dreams do come true only to those who persist on chasing their dreams. I believe that one day my dream will come true.

I am currently studying and working at the same time. I have a Marketing back ground and now I am currently doing Btech in Public Relations. My dream is to become a marketing communications manager.

I would like to work for a big company, where I would learn and grow. After getting all the experience I would like to start my own company.

My other fat dream is to get married with someone that I love and give birth to twins and name them Qamani and Nande. Boy and the girl.

So I would like to be successful career woman and also a wife and mom. Three in one.one day is one day. My dreams will come true.

Andy warhol said, in the future everybody will be world famous for fifteen minutes. You can’t choose the 15 minutes but why would you be world famous?

I would be world famous because of my character or personality. I am the kind of person, who is so calm and takes time to make a decision. I don’t take a decision while I’m angry. I am very quiet and shy person but very sweet, honest and kind.

Even thou I am quiet I do speak up. I let you know how I feel. I am a very honest and straight forward. I think I would be famous because of my honesty.

I am so honesty in a way that makes other people angry or hate me. I don’t like lying. I stick to what I said and if by any chance I’ve changed my decision I let you know in time. If there’s something wrong you do I tell you. I have a friend of mine, he is over 21 and he is dating a 16 year old girl. I told him, that he is wrong he should stop seeing her, because the girl is under age and he might get into trouble. He was so angry at me for telling him the truth. I am that kind of person. I can’t keep quiet, if I see someone doing something wrong and especially if you are close to me.

No longer a good Girl

Do not take me wrong people, but I am only saying how I feel. I am so tired of being a good girl. What did I get from being a good girl? I got disappointments, hurt, betrayals and being played. I will never be a good girl anymore, I had enough. I was not pretending to be a good girl, but now that will have to change.

No player will play games with me and not participate. I am also ready for the game. I am more than ready. I will do whatever it takes to win the game. If it might happen that I don’t win the game, at least it must be a draw.

Why should I be good when there are no good people out there? I found Cape Town like this and I will leave it like this. I am not here to change the world. I take life as it comes.

I have learnt that to be a good girl sometimes is not right. You end up being hurt and wonder what you have done to deserve this. My happiness comes first. I am tired of putting some people’s happiness first. I only live once. If I don’t feel good now, when and where am I going to feel good? If I don’t protect myself, who is going to protect me? If I am not good to myself, who is going to be good to me? Life is too short I can’t afford to live with regrets.

I choose to be a smart naughty and bad girl. Bad girl always get what they want.