I am a good listener. I have a soft heart. I like assisting people. I understand, I put people’s feelings before mine.
The fact I am a good listener, it makes me struggle sometimes to pour my heart to someone. Sometimes I feel like talking and pouring whatever is bothering me in heart. Before I even start, someone would tell me about his/ her problems and I would have to console or give advice, and after that I would not say anything about my problem because I do not want to trouble him/ her. I would keep it to myself. It would eat me inside until I forget that there is something troubling me. Or I would try to console myself.
See my greatest strength is my greatest weakness. This is not a good thing. I am trying to change this but I guess this is who I am, I cannot change. I do not like seeing people suffering and I do not want to give them more burdens.
This thing of consoling me sometimes is not right. I also want to pour my heart to someone, who will listen, understand and comfort me.
Sometimes we always give people all our attention especially listening to their problems but we do not get the same treatment. Choose friends you know they will listen to you when you need a shoulder to cry on.
ReplyDeleteThis is a good example of our strength is our weakness.
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